You know what. If you are not ready for kids yet then don’t have them.

I’m so tired of seeing people do nothing but complain about the things their babies do. They’re not there to be cute when you want to play with them and shut up when you don’t. Their human too. They are going to get sick, sometimes things are going to hurt, they are not going to be happy 24/7 and they need to be taken care of. This is not a small decision you are going to be taking care of that child for the rest of your life. If you can’t handle that then you shouldn’t be having kids. Its not up to them to deal with your mistakes.